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This Is 50? Happy Birthday, Terry Miller!

Forgive us for being blunt, but ageism is wildly idiotic. When someone judges an older person or discriminates against them, it’s like they have no concept of time and its...

Lights, Camera, Man-on-Man Action w/ Harry Styles

Love defies convention. When two people become soulmates, no amount of public shame can extinguish their passion. That said: gay romance has been forbidden for the vast majority...

Beauty Is SKYN Deep

At the risk of sounding totally 90s: condoms are sexy. Although many of us in the LGBTQ’mmunity have benefitted from the protection of antiretroviral and pre-exposure...

Y? Because We Love You.

Injustice demands action, no matter how long it requires or what form it takes. Pain becomes internalized, it mutates, and those who struggle with the ramifications of oppression...

Gaydar, Circa 1980 – How to Spot a Homosexual

Remember how difficult it used to be to identify other members of the LGBTQ+ community with whom you could share laughs, love, and/or larceny? Well, the CIA compiled a useful...

Get Your Buns in Gear!

Butts are a microcosm of life. They grow over time and they process a lot of crap, but they yearn to get off the sidelines and go where the sun DOES shine. Our collective rear...

Ryan O’Connell Turns the Page

If you haven’t seen Special yet, what TF is wrong with you? Ryan O’Connell spins the neurotically erotic tale of an aspiring writer who hides his cerebral palsy from the world...

Desire Remembered: Celebrating Tennessee Williams

Pride isn’t merely bestowed; it must be earned, cultivated, and defended. Nobody embodied the complexity of queer existence more fully than Tennessee Williams. In his later...

Flip the Script with the Gay, Black Men of Atlanta

History is a cacophony of perspectives. Amidst the revelations and revolutions, we tend to dismiss the nuance of our shared human struggle. Certain populations get forgotten or...

Hungry for Humor? Feast on ‘Breaking Fast’

Why be humble? Gays are the best! But sometimes, society gets in our way. Pesky notions like society, religion, and tradition conspire to dull our rainbow glow and hinder our...

Vocabulary Word of the Gay: Cottaging

What could be lovelier than an afternoon spent cottaging with your mate? Well, when you consider the fact that “cottaging” means hot and nasty man-sex in a public restroom,...

Look Like 1.5 Million Bucks at City Gym

This damn pandemic #damndemic really messed with our workout routine. We miss the gym in all of its gay glory. The sauna, the cardio, the sauna, the weights, the sauna… did we...